No matter if you’ve been together 20 years or known each other for 20 minutes. She wants to know you crave her, that she has your full attention, and that she is the most important person to you at that moment in time. She needs to know you are listening to what she is saying, that you care about what she is thinking. Seduction is an underrated art.
Learning To Live Without Your Ex
Moving on after a breakup isn’t easy. Regardless of who initiated the breakup, it’s tough to get used to a new way of life as a single person. You’re probably used to operating as a couple and now there is a void in your life, which can be a difficult adjustment. Here’s how to learn to live without your ex:
- Find someone else to fill the void. Don’t leave a big gaping hole in your life where your ex used to be. Find someone, or several people, to help to fill in the void that they’ve left. If you confided in your ex and told them everything, find someone else to talk to like your best friend. If you spent every Friday night having date night, then find someone else to hang out with so you’re not just sitting around. If you don’t fill the gaps that your ex has left then you’ll be all too aware of what’s missing. If you start to re-fill the holes with other positive things then it won’t be long before you are able to move on.
- Go out. Don’t sit around at home alone. Even if you think you’re ok, you will get sad and end up wallowing. You don’t have to go out every night; just don’t sit around at home every night either. Find some friends, meet some new ones, and get out of the house. Fun, laughter, flirting, and letting loose with your friends are exactly what you need to forget your ex and make new memories.